Cecilie and Jesper Conrad invited me to be part of their Self Directed podcast, so I met them online, via Zoom, and I had a fabulous time recording episode 65 with them.
After the interview, one of my daughters said, “How did it go, Mum?” and I replied, “I must have done okay because the Conrads have invited me to record a second episode with them!”
That second conversation, episode 66 – I’ve got back-to-back episodes on the Self Directed podcast! – is now live. What did we talk about this time? My favourite topic: unconditional love!
The Podcast Details
Discover the essence of unconditional love and its profound impact on parenting and education as we welcome back Sue Elvis for another heartening conversation.
This episode peels back the layers of what it truly means to love our children without conditions, exploring the intersection of this powerful emotion with the unschooling philosophy.
Sue delves into how respecting our children’s individuality and passions is not just about meeting homeschooling legalities but about nurturing their well-being and learning experiences from a place of genuine support.
We reflect on the challenges and the sometimes stark contrast between our idyllic visions of family life and the messier realities.
Unconditional love emerges as a transformative force in our discussion, not as a passive acceptance but as an active foundation of forgiveness and growth.
We share personal stories and insights that unpack the nuances of expressing this kind of love, even in the face of societal expectations and the unique trials parenting can bring.
This episode promises to leave you with a newfound appreciation for the superpower of compassion within your family dynamics.
We also discuss parenting teenagers, dispelling misconceptions, and embracing their unique perspectives on the family unit.
We underscore the importance of positivity and patience, particularly through the turbulent teen years, and the profound gratitude that comes with the privilege of nurturing the next generation.
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I’ll add both audio and video versions of episode 66 to this post. I hope you will listen or watch.
The Podcast
Here are several articles associated with the podcast episode.
Questioning the Wisdom of Unconditional Love
The other day, I wrote something about unconditional love, and later, rereading my words, I began to doubt what I’d said. While sharing my thoughts in blog posts and Instagram captions, perhaps I’m passing on false ideas and leading people astray.
Here’s what I wrote:
We often talk about accepting our kids just as they are. But can we really do that? Surely we can’t accept our kids’ faults? Our children need to change and become better people. Could it be wrong to say they’re okay exactly as they are?
Reject What Doesn’t Feel Right and Just Love
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So, what do you think?
Is unconditional love at the heart of unschooling? And have you listened to episode 65 and 66 of the Self Directed podcast?
This morning, Jesper, Cecilie and I had a third conversation. This time, we talked about radical unschooling. We started with the question: what if your two-year-old refuses to brush her teeth? We shared many thoughts, ideas and stories as we discussed radical unschooling, differentiating it from unparenting. This episode will be published in June. Why not subscribe to both my blog and Self Directed so you hear when this episode is live?
